She said she was considering ending our marriage when the children are grown. Recently my wife acknowledged that she is no longer in love with me she loves me as the father of her children, admires me, respects me, loves me as a family member, but is neither attracted to me nor in love with me. When I asked her whether it had something to do with the other guy, she said no and I believe her. Over the last year or so, she’s become more distant. After many discussions, we managed to get back together as she “chose ” us.
About four years ago I found out that she was having a “platonic ” affair with one of her colleagues. She then became progressively more distant. My wife became uninterested in our sex life about 10 years ago. My wife and I have been married for nearly 20 years.
